Against the Expectation of "Steelmanning"
The idea that everyone should be ready, willing, able to prove their fair-mindedness and/or intellectual prowess by "steelmanning" their opponents' ideas at a moment's notice is deeply misguided.
“Steelmanning” seems to be a fairly recent addition to the vocabulary of argumentation. This 2012 blog post by Chana Messinger introduces it in a way that makes it sound like the term was Messinger’s invention. It probably wasn’t—this post on Less Wrong from 2011 makes it sound like it was already in circulation1—but whatever its exact date of birth, it …